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Here's my justification: This project's about finding out what the "girlfriend experience" is.

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I sent her the details. The night before, I was full of nerves.

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What do you like? What feels good to you? Sometimes, people know exactly how to answer. It's like eating nothing but burgers and then going to Asian fusion and being asked what you want. After that, she'll start taking off her clothes, with the same continual questions to make sure they're still comfortable.

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I'm not going to go into specifics here, for obvious reasons, but I'd like to get into how it feels to speak to someone like Jessica. There's a freedom in it, an allowance to voice issues without consequences, which, turns out, is super rare to be able to.


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